Stop Trying To Make Work-Life Balance Happen

Work-life balance is not a thing, Steph. Work-life harmony, however, is something that can be attained. 


A dear friend so kindly pointed out to me a few weeks into this school year that work-life balance is an unattainable dream. Between doctor’s visits, committee meetings, grading, and all the unexpected tasks that arise, balancing life’s spinning plates is often an arduous and impossible task. But this was the year that I was going to achieve balance, go home sooner, and bring less work home. This was my year to divide my time and energy into neat, scheduled appointments on my Google Calendar. After countless hours of at home working, grading, and preparation, my “balance” is certainly off kilter. The more I sought to separate and compartmentalize my professional and personal lives in the inaugural grading period of this school year, the more entwined they became. In the business of people (specifically teens), I have already abandoned the lofty goals of achieving some semblance of a zen-like state and have embraced the organized chaos that is my work-life blend.

My Google Calendar has certainly kept my phone a-buzz with reminders and messages that keep me on my toes. Relinquishing the control I wish I could take, I have accepted that work-life balance doesn't exist, and that is okay. Amidst the hustle and busyness that we all inevitably face, I am beginning to find a greater sense of peace.

Today, I started teaching a three-week course on Google. Meeting with small groups of teachers, I am reviewing the Google Level 1 Certification material with them in hopes of supporting their skills, simplifying their work lives by making their daily tasks more efficient, and helping teachers engage students in new and innovative ways. The words efficient and effective repeated themselves multiple times in our conversations. As society and technology evolve, so too do the needs of our students. 

Google’s mission is to support educators and the educational experiences of students. Inherently, the blue SHARE button in the top right corner serves as a reminder that we are all sharing in the learning process. As we prepare students to leave our halls sooner than they realize, we are teaching collaboration and communication. They have a plethora of information, tools, and resources at their fingertips, and yet, they need to be empowered to tell their own stories, sort through the information that they discover, and produce critical thoughts and ideas. Our students need to learn to be creators of content - not just critical consumers.

Exploring educational technology and the potential it has to support my students’ learning. It has challenged me to ask myself why I assess specific skills and what I hope students will leave my classroom knowing and producing. Ultimately, I have come to realize that we cannot fear failure and that we have to push our students to develop critical skills that can be applied to any text or even any area of study.

Change can have a negative connotation; we inherently dread change. Evolution, however, involves gradual growth and insinuates that there is a potential not yet realized. I hope that through a positive outlook and embracing both the success and failure that arises as the result of utilizing all tools available, I can guide my students to discover their own potential, cultivate skills that they will need to be productive citizens and help them to be well-rounded individuals.

As I continue on my path of work-life harmony, I will embrace the challenges placed before, and when I feel lost in the stream of life that is as clunky as the Classroom Stream is at the present moment, I will persevere and find new ways to organize myself and work toward attaining a work-life harmony.

Look, Mom! I'm balancing!